What's love ?

We all have heard about it somewhere. I was always asked by someone the same question again and again . Mostly in a sarcastic way . I personally never thought about it till now. Seriously who thinks about it , we just live it . There are some persons we like and others we dislike. Where does love come in then ?and if it comes around do we really live it ? or we make choices....

Good question isn't it ? If I ask you , most of you will say that you never thought about it . As per us love is a warmth of heart , joyful feeling , smile in our life. Many people have written about it . Karen Sunde said,"Love is to receive a glimpse of heaven ."

Is it so ? Then why do we stop feeling it after a certain while ? Does our heart stops beating ? I don't understand where does all of those feelings disappear?We suddenly start feeling that the person we are living with is the worst . He or she doesn't deserve us . We look around and find every other person's partners better than ours. It becomes our strong belief that everything bad in our life happened because of our partner.And of course the bottom line is we deserve a better person..

I have one simple question for you -" Are we perfect ?" think over it and I will talk to you about this later.

I am there to listen to you.....

I always wanted a way to express my feelings.First I tried talking to my friends but they always do not have patience for my problems ,they have their own.Then i tried writing on my diary , on different pages and tear them later but nothing works. It does not feel right. It does not give me the satisfaction of telling your story to somebody. I prefer somebody responding back at my actions. I think this one thing we lack in our relationships now a days. Nobody hears you . I would like some body to listen to me and I am there to listen to them .

LONGFELLOW said " Into each life some rain must fall, some days must be dark and dreary."

But how do we get out of this situation ? What will help ? nobody answers you....

I think i know what you want ... You want somebody to talk with. There are days when I am on top of the world but some days i just want somebody to hold me in their arms and tell me everything will be alright. This is not the day when world will end. There is always a new day coming . After the darkest night comes the most beautiful morning....So try talking to somebody. if nobody listens , try to write it down .Never loose faith . Somebody is out there, who can hold your hand and make you feel better.

The Power of Thoughts

Every persons life is the reflection of their own thoughts. Thoughts have an important role in making a person timid or brave ,happy or unhappy, peaceful or worried. Famous psycologist Dr, Youthas has written in his book "Psycology of Religion" person's thought decides they way of life he is living. Our body works as per our thoughts . If we think positive , we can make possible the impossible and if we are negative we can make possible impossible.

This world is like a mirror. Whatever our thoughts are will reflect in it. Swami Vivekananda said, " Heaven and Hell are in our thoughts." Buddha said," What we are in the present and what we will become in the future depends on our thoughts." Shakespeare said, " Nothing is good or bad . Our thoughts are base of good and bad. " Christ said , " A person becomes the same as his thoughts are ."

Briefly in our life's activity mostly depend on our thoughts. If we think positive it will be easier to face the problems. Negative thoughts always cloud our mind . It's advisable to stay away from the negativity as much as we can to improve the quality of life we live.

Truth of Human Body

"VASANSI JIRNANI YATHA VIHAYA , NAVANI GRIHANTI NAROPARANI .

TATHA SHARIRANIVIHAY JIRNANYANYANI SANYATI NAVANI DEHI ."

As a person puts on new garments, giving up old ones . The soul similiarly accepts new material bodies , giving up the old ones.

by BHAGAVAD GITA

This shloka from BHAGAVAD GITA tells that every thing expires . Either its food or medicines or it is human body. So if we think deeply there is nothing to be selfish about . We got everything after we were born and after death we will leave everything behind .If nothing is permanent ,then why do we worry about the circumstances ..... ??