LIVE LIFE ONE DAY AT A TIME...

I am a perfectionist. Sometimes I wonder is it a good thing or bad.It is very hard to satisfy me . I am very hard on myself. Recently I was going over my life, all I could see was the mistakes I have made . My achievements were not significant for me. It made me very depressed . I lacked interest in everything. Then one day I dragged myself out of the bed and went for a morning walk. The Sun was rising , birds were chirping. Leaves were changing colors and  giving message of the begining of the beautiful fall. Gentle breeze was blowing . Everything was very beautiful. I realized how many good things I have in my life .Nobody's life is perfect. There are good moments and bad moments. That is what makes our lives so interesting. As they say if you don't know the taste of bitter you can't probably know what sweet is for you. So buckle up and get yourself ready. Its best to live your life as it comes. I have made my life's principle " To live one day at a time and learn from my mistakes and move on ".

Travel and Life !!!!

Recently I have travelled to other part of the world. People say that travelling always give you life experiences.It is true in my case.I dealt with very hard circumstances and enjoyed some pleasant ones too. I met different people who had different opinions about me although I am the same person. I can say that i was always correct but it wouldn't be truly honest. I did some really good things and at times I did some mistakes too . I went to several places and met people with various attitudes in this trip and learnt from every body and even from my mistakes . I learnt a hard way how to live life one day at a time..

Now I have a very strong belief in Sir ROGER L'ESTRANGE's saying:

"LIVE AND LET LIVE is the rule of common justice ."

The gist of my post is that its very important to be a good human being.We all are different , instead of hurting each other and stepping on each others foot. We should help as many people as we can ..without expecting what we can get in return. I know its very hard to do thing . Believe me it is hard for me too and i am still in the process of learning to do it. So lets all take a oath that we will be a good human- being , not a good Christian ,Muslim , Hindu or any religion...... but a good human- being. Lets take the oath of humanity....Let's Live and Let People Live !!!!!

Answer To Some Questions....

In my last title I gave you some questions to think about. This time I have some answers. I feel like we all get unhappy not because of others. We make ourselves unhappy. I do not want to say that there are no difficult circumstances in our lives. But we can over come them.. We are human - beings. We are known as God's child because we have the power to make our life as we want. We can create, maintain and destroy. It is in our own hands. No body's life is without problems...Some people learn from it and some just let the problems take charge of themselves..I have been through both the faces ,there were times when I gave up but some of the times i stood up and moved further. It did hurt in the beginning but i learnt a lot from it . Then i decided it was worth the pain.

I know we cannot change life or the situations. But we can make it better by taking some small steps at a time.So, the question is how do we do it ??? I have couple of suggestions:-

1. Take a deep breath and say every morning "I can do it ".

2.Close your eyes and think what mistakes have you done.(Be honest- Nobody is judging you )

3.Correct your mistakes if you can or ask forgiveness ..( It takes a brave heart to say sorry )

4.Move ahead ..( Do not stay and get stuck in that pain full time)

5.Make a new routine , try to pick up one new activity which makes you happy.

These are some beginning steps. I am not trying to preach you neither I am saying that I can face it better than you, but trust me I have done this in my life and there was happiness in the end.As it is said:-

"Life! we have been long together,

Through pleasant and cloudy weather;

'Tis hard to part when friends are dear,

Perhaps 't will cost a sigh, a tear;

Then steal away give a little warning,

Choose thine own time;

Say not "Good night",but in some brighter clime

Bid me "Good morning."

-ANNA L.BARBAULD

I hope this will help.... Keep Smiling!!!!!