Answer To Some Questions....

In my last title I gave you some questions to think about. This time I have some answers. I feel like we all get unhappy not because of others. We make ourselves unhappy. I do not want to say that there are no difficult circumstances in our lives. But we can over come them.. We are human - beings. We are known as God's child because we have the power to make our life as we want. We can create, maintain and destroy. It is in our own hands. No body's life is without problems...Some people learn from it and some just let the problems take charge of themselves..I have been through both the faces ,there were times when I gave up but some of the times i stood up and moved further. It did hurt in the beginning but i learnt a lot from it . Then i decided it was worth the pain.

I know we cannot change life or the situations. But we can make it better by taking some small steps at a time.So, the question is how do we do it ??? I have couple of suggestions:-

1. Take a deep breath and say every morning "I can do it ".

2.Close your eyes and think what mistakes have you done.(Be honest- Nobody is judging you )

3.Correct your mistakes if you can or ask forgiveness ..( It takes a brave heart to say sorry )

4.Move ahead ..( Do not stay and get stuck in that pain full time)

5.Make a new routine , try to pick up one new activity which makes you happy.

These are some beginning steps. I am not trying to preach you neither I am saying that I can face it better than you, but trust me I have done this in my life and there was happiness in the end.As it is said:-

"Life! we have been long together,

Through pleasant and cloudy weather;

'Tis hard to part when friends are dear,

Perhaps 't will cost a sigh, a tear;

Then steal away give a little warning,

Choose thine own time;

Say not "Good night",but in some brighter clime

Bid me "Good morning."

-ANNA L.BARBAULD

I hope this will help.... Keep Smiling!!!!!