I know i know, everybody knows the importance of friendship. It's a relationship close to your heart where nobody competes or judges each other . But is it entirely true ? I have seen friends judging and competing with each other. How to know if it is a true friendship ? Let me tell you my experience.
In the course of my life, I lived in different cities . In the beginning it was very hard for me, you know being far away from family and getting adjusted to the new environment . It took me some time to understand that every city has it's own culture , food habits and lifestyle . I started very slowly but with each move , i adjusted faster . I learnt a lot of things but the key thing I learnt was how to make friends . No no don't get me wrong , i always had my childhood friends but we moved to different places and our links became little weaker. So i started making friends wherever i moved. We were from different cultures, ethnicity and backgrounds but our core was same. I became more broad minded and i learnt a lot from them and hopefully contributed something to their lives too . I felt a lot of pain when we separated but then i moved ahead and made some more friends. These were not drinking or dinning buddies , they are my friends for good and bad, sunshine or hay. I cherish every memory with them and thank them for the learning's.
Listen to me my friends if you want road of your life to be happy... make friends. Not to party or go out . Make friends so that you can learn and make your life a beautiful garden full of pretty flowers of different colors.I believe friendship is a jewel we can develop by our own hands and it never loses it's value . Key is to make right kind of friends who love your heart. It takes some hard work and commitment and even errors but trust me it's worth it. This is the beauty of life.. Live and let live !!!
In the course of my life, I lived in different cities . In the beginning it was very hard for me, you know being far away from family and getting adjusted to the new environment . It took me some time to understand that every city has it's own culture , food habits and lifestyle . I started very slowly but with each move , i adjusted faster . I learnt a lot of things but the key thing I learnt was how to make friends . No no don't get me wrong , i always had my childhood friends but we moved to different places and our links became little weaker. So i started making friends wherever i moved. We were from different cultures, ethnicity and backgrounds but our core was same. I became more broad minded and i learnt a lot from them and hopefully contributed something to their lives too . I felt a lot of pain when we separated but then i moved ahead and made some more friends. These were not drinking or dinning buddies , they are my friends for good and bad, sunshine or hay. I cherish every memory with them and thank them for the learning's.
Listen to me my friends if you want road of your life to be happy... make friends. Not to party or go out . Make friends so that you can learn and make your life a beautiful garden full of pretty flowers of different colors.I believe friendship is a jewel we can develop by our own hands and it never loses it's value . Key is to make right kind of friends who love your heart. It takes some hard work and commitment and even errors but trust me it's worth it. This is the beauty of life.. Live and let live !!!
I love this post so true. I always say life is only what you make it.
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